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Space for Selah

I’m not very good at building margins and space into my life. I never have been.

My people-pleasing, perfectionistic, and workaholic ways crowd out any real possibility of healthy margin and breathing room in my life.

When I lack the space to just be, even when my time is filled with everything I love, a crash-and-burn is inevitable.

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Been there. Done that. Lived to blog about it.

It takes intentionality to build space into my life. But when I do, my heart is better for it. And so is everything that stems from my heart. My writing, my relationships, my perspective . . .

A little bit of space goes a long way. Especially when it’s a built-in consistent part of my life.

A healthy life rhythm has space built in.

Reminds me of the story of the woman with the issue of blood. I’ve always loved that passage because it vividly shows me that God is passionate about healing my heart and not just my body. But it also demonstrates a valuable lesson for my heart.

You remember the story, right? The woman pressed through the crowd on her hands and knees, grabbed the hem of Jesus’ robe, and was instantly healed.

And the Bible tells us that Jesus felt power go out of Him as soon as she touched Him.

It’s unavoidable: …keep reading

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You Can Finally Rest

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The fourth chapter of Hebrews is one of those sections of the Bible that truly encourages the Christian, offering hope and a promise that cannot be shaken. In examining the words of the author in just the first ten verses it becomes clear that today’s believer, under the new covenant of Jesus Christ, enjoys tremendous privileges and spiritual blessings that cannot be found elsewhere. These blessings are only made possible because of the faithfulness of God towards His people and when we not only experience them but embrace them and relish in them, we find ourselves possessing treasures that the world can only hope for.

After discussing Israel’s failure to trust God’s providence and remain loyal to His ordinances in chapter 3, the author begins to paint a picture of a God who wants to give good gifts to His children.

You see, after the people of Israel followed Moses across the Red Sea, out of captivity in Egypt, they found themselves wandering in the wilderness, not really knowing where they were heading. It wasn’t as if God had abandoned them, though. He gave them manna to eat, water to drink, a pillar of smoke to lead them by day and a fire to lead them by night. He was with them, even in the middle of nowhere. But the Israelites didn’t see it that way. They equated their wilderness wandering with total hopelessness. They thought Moses had brought them out of Egypt simply to kill them of thirst. They failed to see God’s providence. And because of their complaining, disobedience, and lack of committment to the Lord, He took away from them the one thing He wanted to give them.

Rest. …keep reading

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[MOVIE REVIEW]: The Secret World of Arrietty

While Studio Ghibli is less well-known to American audiences than its critical counterpart Pixar, the studio has been producing masterful, entertaining, intelligent and mesmerizing child-centered animated features for years including such acclaimed films as Spirited Away, My Neighbor Totoro, Princess Mononoke and my favorite animated feature of all-time, Grave of the Fireflies. 

The latest Studio Ghibli production, The Secret World of Arrietty, is being released here in the United States through Walt Disney Motion Pictures, a fact that will hopefully help the film find an audience at least equivalent to that of their previous partnership, Ponyo. Loosely based upon a 1952 children’s book by British author Mary Norton, The Secret World of Arrietty evolves around a family of tiny people who live beneath the floors of a rather isolated country house. The family consists of Pod (Will Arnett), Homily (Amy Poehler) and their 13-year-old daughter, Arrietty (Bridgit Mendler). The “borrowers,” so named because they borrow things from their human counterparts not likely to be missed, refer to their human counterparts as “Beans” and have a strict code against ever being seen by them.

When a new “Bean” joins the household, a young withdrawn boy named Shawn (David Henrie) sent to the country to prepare for a serious surgery, disaster strikes when Arrietty is spied by the lad during her first “borrowing,” an incident that leads to family chaos and her own increasingly misguided efforts to correct her mistake.

It is important to note that …keep reading

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One More Mile

This may surprise you, but about 3 years ago, I ran a marathon: 26.2 miles. I have this medal to prove it. It is a giant fish, because this was the Bass Pro Marathon in Springfield, MO. I know some of you are really impressed right now, thinking that this medal means I won the race – or that I maybe came in third since it is bronze. Well, I’m sorry to both surprise and disappoint you on the same morning, but I didn’t win. In fact, I was dead last. Or, perhaps I should say that I was dead last of those who finished the race, because there were a lot of people who started the race behind me and never caught up, and there were several people I passed – but they all quit somewhere along the way.

The Springfield Bass Pro Marathon is a very small race. That was only the second year of the race and about 300 people were signed up. To offer a little comparison, nearly 2,000 people completed the Go! St. Louis marathon this year. Looking back on my experience, I should have chosen a larger race with people cheering on the sides of the streets. Because being in a race of only 300 people means that for long stretches of time, you run alone. For the first 13 miles or so, I was around other people. There were other runners to talk to, but somehow along the way, they kept disappearing. Some quit, others were running the half marathon and were finished, and others seemed to be machines who could speed up at the 15 mile mark.

Did I mention it was nearly 80 degrees . . . in November? While that doesn’t seem surprising this year, we were having normal fall weather that year – so all my of long training runs were done outside in 40-50 degree weather. While 80 degrees is pleasant to stand around in, once you’ve run the distance from St. Louis to Belleville (roughly 16 miles), it feels like an oven. And when you aren’t used to running distance in heat? You get worn out QUICKLY. …keep reading

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I Am Obi Wan Kenobi

In anticipation of the recent release of Star Wars, Episode 1 in 3D, my father-in-law threw down a challenge for our family – he would pay for the tickets and snacks if we would all dress up as Star Wars characters for the event. This created a frenzy of excitement among the small Mearses – somewhat less among the grown-ups.

I immediately started a mental list of all the reasons I did not want to get on board:

a) I am much more of an old-school Star Wars guy.

b) Taking our three year-old to a movie is like wrestling a wolverine for two hours.

c) I hate Jar-Jar.

d) I don’t love looking stupid in public.

e) 3D movies tend to make me nauseous.

f) I hate Jar-Jar even more now than a moment ago.

After a couple weeks of trying to glean costume props from friends, we landed on a scheme. Jackson was Darth Vader (he already had the full costume and wears it frequently in public, so that was easy). Lizzy was Yoda (she gets the Cutest Yoda Ever award). Zachary found a mask and an old Storm Shadow get up and made a respectable General Grievous out of it. Christina went as Princess Leia (episode 4 version, just so we’re clear). I grabbed some VBS robes from the church and went as a very iffy Obi Wan Kenobi. The kids looked great. They had that “cute kid dressed up in a costume” thing going on. Christina and I had more of a “we decided to come to the costume party at the last minute and after we were already half-inebriated” vibe. …keep reading

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Why a Ministry Blog Beats Email Everytime

Last week I wrote an article entitled Build Momentum & Create Unity With A Blog.” I’ve received a lot of questions about this topic recently. Underlying many of these questions has been the more foundational question of “Why?” In particular, “WHY go through the pains of learning new technology and building new systems to create a blog when email works just as well?”

Answer: Because email DOESN’T work as well.

Reasons Why A Blog is Better.
Let me explain why. Following are some of the top reasons why I want you to consider creating a ministry blog. Remember, I’ve outlined three target audiences for three kinds of ministry blogs: congregation, volunteers, leaders.

  • It Gives People Options
    Unless your target audience is living in the last decade, email is no longer the preferred method of communication for the world at large. Yes. Most people now have email, but in today’s social media driven culture, people want to have choices. A blog gives those choices to people. The tech savvy may choose to subscribe to your blog via a blog reader like Google ReaderNewsGator, orBlogLines while the less tech savvy still have the option to utilize email.
  • It Leverages Social Media
    Similarly, there are ways to connect blog entries to various forms of social media. For instance, every blog post could also be connected to your personal or church TwitterFaceBook, or LinkedIn accounts. …keep reading

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4 Undeniable Small Group Realities
That May Change Everything

It seems some faulty ideals have, over time, invaded the small group world. While some would say that I’m splitting hairs, I believe the four confusions listed below need some consideration. One or more of these facts may change the way we do groups.

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1. Small Groups are not groups, they’re Christian communities. The term “group” has become an institutional descriptor. This term leads us to believe that every small group is a program of the church, the institution. Because we perceive that any program of any organization is guided by and directed by the leaders of that organization, the leadership of that organization then gets to determine what a program does, is, and what her goals are. And many churches have concluded that the small group ministry is just another program of the church leaving what a group does, is, and what her goals are, to the church leadership.

Don’t get me wrong, in most instances the church leadership helps groups be biblically functioning communities. Sadly, in some settings this isn’t true. But shouldn’t a small group be a biblically functioning community, an Acts 2 Christian community, guided by and directed by our leader, Jesus Christ? Bottom line . . . When we embrace the fact that a group of Christians doing life together is a “Christian community,” we then lead the group to embrace the directives found in Scripture. The Bible determines what a Christian Micro-Community/small group does, is, and what her goals are. Differentiating between a group being a program of the church and a biblically functioning community under the direction of Jesus Christ is a vital reality.

2. The goal of small groups is to make mature disciples, not to grow the church numerically. Many small group pastors find themselves …keep reading

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